This is my mod of solifex (firstname.lastname@example.org) Ordinary Shiki Wine. I liked the theme, but I wanted a deeper red instead of a pinkish wine color so I redid the pixmaps and fixed the close button so it doesn't jump around. I also changed the button color to reduce the contrast.
The font used for the titlebar is HandelGotD which is available here or at numerous free font sites. Just google it and you will find dozens of placed to get it.
The theme works well with any dark gtk theme. I recommend AnimaNera, Aeternum, Blackbird, DarkDream, Black Winter or something similar.
Use emerald-theme-manager to install the theme, or to do it manually, just do the following (you can cut and paste the lines into an xterm in the same director you download the theme to):
For your personal use:
mkdir ~/.emerald/themes/dcrOSR &&
tar -C ~/.emerald/themes/dcrOSR
to install system wide (as root):
mkdir /usr/share/emerald/themes/dcrOSR &&
tar -C /usr/share/emerald/themes/dcrOSR